my Flash moment

somewhere out there, from san francisco...
the 1st thing he asked was,"dirty" or "clean" ?.
CLEAN OF COS!!... duh
so it has been clean all throughout our almost a year of emails and msn convo,
beating geographical and time zone differences...

BUT THE PROBLEM IS:
i have no idea how he looks like.
for all i know, he could be a 92, about to meet The Maker, year old man or
a fat, couch-potato geezer or
a RTS (roam the street) hobo.
we do not do Fb with each other.
i tried to do some detective work using his name, surname and email address to look in Facebook but couldnt find a tinge of him.
for all i know, he could have given me a fictatious name....
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...................... oh dear.. not sounding good init ........